Moving out of the house for the first time can be one of the most conflicting times of your teenager's life. They will most certainly be excited for their new freedom and independence, but many will also feel anxious, apprehensive, and saddened by the move away from home. You might be feeling similar mixed emotions as the parent. On the one hand, you are proud of your child for moving on to bigger goals and greater obstacles, but it is also saddening and difficult to let go. Do not be afraid to show them your conflicting feelings. It is important to communicate your feelings and help them understand their freedom to do the same. There are many ways your teen for the journey they are about to embark on.
Spend a great deal of time helping your teenager plan their move. While it does provide furniture, dormitory living does require many purchases and preparations. Most dorm beds are longer than standard twin beds, so special sheets need to be purchased. Additionally, your child will need towels, a hamper, detergent, shower products, decorations, and school supplies. Don't take charge of the planning and packing, but do guide them and offer your support. Help them contact their school for a list of recommended items to be brought along, and make plenty of suggestions.
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It is important to remind your child that their home will still be home, even if they are living somewhere else. Store some of their things at home-don't bring everything to school. Also, don't change their bedroom immediately after their departure. Doing so is often very hurtful, even if they don't admit to it.
Make sure to keep lines of communication open, and always be available on the phone or through email.
When dropping your teenager off at school, only stay for as long as it takes to get them settled and unpacked. Sticking around for too long, buying too many things after arriving, and continuing to take your child out for dinner will only contribute to the stress that is felt with transitioning to college life. Even though it will be difficult, it is important to say goodbye as quickly as possible. Your child will need time to adjust, meet new people, and participate in orientation and other scheduled activities. Your presence will, unfortunately, only be a hindrance after the first few hours.
Mail will always be appreciated, so send your child a care package as soon as you get home from dropping them off! Fill it with homemade food, photos of your family, quarters for laundry, a letter, or their favorite candy! Anything that shows your thoughts are with them will be a great help.